Some people say that the most difficult role in the world is not mother, but daughter-in-law! Although modern couples live less with their parents-in-law after marriage, they can still be at peace while maintaining a sense of distance. Recently, some netizens shouted loudly after living with their parents-in-law, because these five-point actions actually made her unable to give up unmarried men and women, and it is more important to choose the "family" who is careful to choose the marriage partner!

The victim, based on her own experience, pointed out the following five reasons why she decided to "moving quickly", and thought that her daughter-in-law was actually a very difficult role.

1. If you always suffer in reverse, you are not fond of others, don't know how to take the initiative to think about others, and "must be funny."

2. A daughter-in-law who is too thoughtful is not OK

If you don't want to be a robot without affection, you will be a little bit strong and express your dissatisfaction to your parents-in-law. After that, they will think you are an unfilial and tricky woman.

3. If you don't cook, it means you won't be OK

As a novice mother, you have to take good care of your children every day. However, you won't cook them for him if you are unemployed.

It's OK. It's already 2019, and there are still some traditional concepts. If you think your wife and wife are married, you should serve her body and drink her hands. Shouldn’t a wife cook? This still depends on the common understanding of the family division of labor and discussion between husband and wife. Cooking should be a mutual helping heart, not a matter of duty.

4. I still don’t know if I have given birth to one child

I have given birth to a child, but I was said, “My daughter-in-law can still have a baby, but it’s very bad if I don’t have a second child.” BUT, it’s not that mothers don’t want to give birth, but that’s not that they’re not going to give birth to it!

The older parents-in-law may think that in their financial difficulties, four or five children were still born next to the house, and everyone has been here. YES123 Job Search Network conducted a survey of office workers in Taiwan last year, how much does it cost to raise children in modern people?

Regardless of whether there are double wages or if there are no long-term needs to be cared for, the proportion of office workers who feel "financially exhausted" in their current stage life is as high as 74.4%. The respondents also believe that the "study care fund" that needs to be prepared from birth to 20 years old will be saved to an average of 5.8 million yuan! If you estimate it based on the regular salary of 40,000 yuan, you will probably have to go without eating or drinking for about 11.9 years before you can prepare well.

So if you are not a good savage, you really want to have a second child, and you don’t have to cook it if you have enough food. ……

5. Isn’t it OK to not worship?

This is the most incredible thing, because the mother-in-law did not worship her, and the daughter-in-law was still shot while lying down. The editor privately believed that since he was married, it is necessary to respect and understand the traditional customs of both families. It is actually part of the lifestyle, but it is not OK to strengthen your life habits to others, or to use this to determine whether it is a good wife or not!

Therefore, as the saying goes, people have the most beautiful love, and hope to be with each other; but if you meet your parents-in-law who are not here, you still have no understanding after discussing with your husband, and hope that the whole thing will be unsatisfactory! If you are sure to live with a couple after marriage, you must first ensure that your husband can handle any effective middle-aged person.