Fear is easy to be difficult, but marriage is the tomb of love? Many people become less satisfied with their partner the longer they get married, and they don’t even understand why they would marry him/her at the beginning? Is marriage a paradise for love or a tomb? Yuanqi.com posted a message from the face fans to inquire about their views on marriage from the perspective of men and women. The post was posted and received replies from netizens.

What will make you regret marrying/marrying an inappropriate person?

As the saying goes, "Men are afraid of getting into wrong careers, and women are afraid of marrying wrong men." In fact, not only women are afraid, but men are also afraid of marrying wrong wives. What exactly makes you suspect that you are marrying a wrong partner? Come and see the responses from netizens.

What will make the "women" regret marrying their current husband? "He told me that I would take care of me, but I ended up having a half-pain", "When I had no money", "I owe a lot of debts outside, I don't have a house, I don't care about it", "I only have a mouth left after I was 40 years old", "My parents-in-law insisted on bringing my mother-in-law to live in", "When I got married, I found that his mother was more terrible than my family! So it's right to check it out first!", "Little bird (size of a sexual organ), "When I changed my job, I found that my colleagues were all very nice", "I didn't have the first time to protect me." Wife, every time I get married because others cheat my wife, friends are always more important than wives", "When I have children", "A man who has no good intentions, or three babies (mother, brother, sister)", "Different politics, beliefs and ideas", "9 regrets when 10 women get married! If it weren't for the fact that there would be a child, I would have released them!", "At the head, I made 24 money", "I keep betrayal, I just want to have fun in my life", "Martial wife will die for a long time", "When quarreling", "What will make us regret getting married".

What will make the "men" regret marrying their current wife? "I regretted it on the first day of marriage", "When I gave birth to a child", "When a female colleague in the new company is more beautiful than the other", "There is a problem with my sister-in-law", "Every family has a difficult life, it's hard to say", "I didn't let her live a good life...", "I made you wear a green hat and spend money", "I became too fat after marriage", "I was talking nonsense", "When I watched someone's wife turn from a younger girlfriend to a older mother", "I lost her breasts after giving birth", "When I quarreled". But many male netizens are afraid that leaving messages will cause family woes. They will answer only if they don’t want to live, saying, Are you sure you can speak here?

There are also many male/female netizens who say they do not regret getting married and share ways to maintain marriage relationships. "We have been married for 24 years. The relationship is getting better and better. We cherish each other more and more, and we will not regret it! At the beginning, many people said that our horoscopes are not in line with each other. I said that the horoscopes are not in line with each other, but in thinking about life concepts, respecting and supporting each other." "Don't regret it... Life has its own fixed numbers, and everyone encounters are here to temper you", "I haven't thought about … The longer the relationship is, the better", "There is a natural friendship, and the husband and wife respect each other, and the other's advantages are recorded In the heart, forget the other party's shortcomings, be safe and have nothing to do, and a child is lucky", "The quarrels between husband and wife is common. Two people come from different families, get married and get in touch, so they will not have different opinions and conflicts. If you regret wanting to divorce, think about the other party's advantages and sweetness of love, use positive energy to offset the negative energy, or you can also participate in religious activities and charity groups at work, and you can get the revelation of life and see the unfortunate people, and cherish the happiness in the present!"

Based on the responses of netizens, the reasons why men and women regret their marriage are as follows:

1. Economic problems: After marriage, I found that I was economically difficult, the husband could not promise to support my family, and the wife was not economically independent. Or the quality of life after marriage has declined and there is no real expectation and happiness in marriage.

2. Problem between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law: Being inseparable from relationships with mother-in-law and sister-in-law, hindering the harmony of marriage.

3. Quarrels frequently: After marriage, couples quarrel frequently, resulting in tight relationships and inability to reconcile.

4. Appearance changes: worrying about getting along with your partner after marriage is no longer attractive, such as the wife getting fat after giving birth and the husband having a big belly.

5. Expectation gap: After marriage, I find that life is not as good as expected, which makes me feel tired of my marriage.

6. Disagreement of concepts: Different concepts such as politics, beliefs, and value viewing lead to dissonance between husband and wife.

7. Outside confusion: When you meet someone more attractive than your spouse at work or elsewhere, you will have an affair or a mental strife.

8. Third party intervention: After marriage, it is discovered that the spouse has an inappropriate relationship with others, which has aroused distrust and suspicion.

6 secrets to maintaining a happy marriage

After entering marriage, it is a new life and challenge for couples. The following 6 methods can help maintain stability and happiness in marriage:

1. Communication and understanding: Establishing a good communication model is an important foundation for maintaining marriage. Couples should openly communicate each other’s thoughts, feelings and needs, and understand each other’s views to establish supportive relationships.

2. Mutual respect: Respect is the key to maintaining marriage relationships. Couples should respect each other's opinions, values ​​and space, and avoid plagiarizing, scrutinizing or humiliating each other.

3. Common goals: Husbands and wife should establish common goals and values, and work together to achieve these goals. Through cooperation and support of each other, the connection and trust between husband and wife can be strengthened.

4. Tolerance and tolerance: In marriage, friction and conflict will inevitably occur. Husbands should learn to be tolerant and tolerant, accept each other's shortcomings and errors, and understand the truth and tolerance..

5. Co-growth: Marriage is a process of continuous development. Husband and wife should grow together, support each other and encourage each other to pursue personal and common goals. Through continuous learning and growth, the connection and density between husband and wife can be enhanced.

6. Stay romantic and passion: Although there are trivialities and pressures of daily life in marriage, couples should still strive to remain romantic and passionate. Regularly arranging time for two people, conducting romantic activities and expressing love can enhance the emotional connection between husband and wife.

After reading the above, netizens shared many reasons why men and women regret marriage, which usually reflect problems and challenges in marriage, including challenges in economy, family, value view and communication. Therefore, establishing good communication, respect and support, and working together to resolve problems is the key to maintaining a stable and happy marriage.